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Is it proper to send graduation announcements for our daughter?

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Dear Polite One,

We are planning a large high school graduation party for my daughter at our home. I would like to send announcements to those who I know can't attend, as I'm very proud that she graduated and is off to college. 

However, I also feel that sending announcements might appear as a tacky way of asking for cash.  Would it be best to send announcements, mentioning the party, but stating that gifts are not expected? 

Proud Mom

Dear Proud Mom,

A graduation from high school should be celebrated, as it is a life event. Sending announcements is appropriate and polite, but don't mention gifts.  It would appear as gifts are expected.  If you want these people to attend the party, however, send an invitation not an announcement. And on these, it is perfectly fine these days to mention no gifts.  

Congratulations!

The Polite One

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