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  Dear Polite One, I am hosting my parent's anniversary party at a restaurant. How to tell guests that they will have to pay for their meal? Loves Parents Dear Loves Parents, This is a huge no-no and there is no polite way to list this on invitations.  It is never, ever, polite to ask guests to provide the party.  If a host invites, a host hosts the entire party.  They pay. Host the party you can afford to host.   Sincerely, The Polite One More by The Polite One She is hosting her party and asking for gifts! Should I send an anniversary card to my mom if dad has passed? Listing “No Children” and “Monetary Gifts” on the Invitation?

Dear Polite One, Should I send a card to my mother for her anniversary if my father has recently passed ? Worried about Mom Dear Worried about Mom , I am sincerely sorry for your loss.  This must be a difficult time for all of you.  It is especially trying for the parent who is grieving. Although an anniversary is an important date and should not be ignored, an off-the-rack card would not be appropriate.   A handwritten note mentioning a time all of you shared, including your feelings would be priceless.  A visit would be even better.  Your presence may help relieve the pain. Sincerely, The Polite One More by The Polite One Do I need to write a thank you card for a sympathy card? In the workplace, may we send a group condolence card? How to address the envelope to the reverend?