Sometimes it is difficult to recognize the difference between assertiveness and impolite behavior. Many people allow themselves to be brow-beaten or taking advantage of because they feel that it would be impolite to say anything that could be interpreted as negative. But it is completely appropriate to inform others how you want to be treated. This is polite and proper. Plus, if we are miserable, others around us feel it and that isn’t fair to those with whom we are close. So, please politely stand your ground knowing that it is proper to do so. Abusive Neighbor Child Dear Polite One, We recently moved to a new neighborhood. Where we used to live, play dates were generally arranged by the parents contacting each other to set up something mutually convenient, and they would usually accompany the kids and visit with the other parents while the children played. However, in our new neighborhood, kids drop by to play without calling fi...
Etiquette Advice by The Polite One