Got Etiquette Advice?

  Etiquette is basically the protocol we use in any given situation.   It is the behavior expected of us.   Still, not everyone is comfortable with their knowledge of what is considered proper or appropriate.   On an average day, I will receive questions about all aspects of etiquette. Here are a few questions from some of our readers.   One thing you may notice in my responses is that the etiquette I suggest makes sense.   It is logical.   Shirtless Party? Hi Polite One , Is it improper to go shirtless on a hot summer day at a backyard barbeque with friends and close family members? Shirtless Dear Shirtless, If this is a pool party, it would be fine as many would be shirtless and in swimsuits.   However, if it is simply a dinner party or gathering, it is best to remain clothed.   Ask yourself if it would be an appropriate time for the ladies to be wearing swimsuits or go shirtless.   If the answer is no, then the men s...

  Dear Polite One, What is the proper thing to do if a guest brings wine to a dinner party?  Do we serve it or not? Gifted Dear Gifted, A gift bottle is just that, a gift.  Nevertheless, as great hosts , and knowing that many don't know this, we try to elicit information slyly.  Statements like, "This looks like a great bottle, would you like me to open it with dinner?" Or "Do you think this will go with the main course?" may get the information we need. This gives the guest the opportunity to tell us his/her intentions.   Sincerely, The Polite One More by The Polite One Do I include titles on place cards? When guests bring food, should they take the leftovers home? How do I politely decline offers of help?