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Do we give gifts for all graduation parties?

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Dear Polite One,

My son and I are invited to multiple high school graduation parties this season.  We simply can't afford a gift for all graduates.  What is the etiquette as far as gift giving if not attending and/or we haven't seen the children in years?  Do I just write checks for all?

Gift Poor

Dear Gift Poor,

You are in luck.  Only those very close to the graduate give gifts and they shouldn’t be expected.  Many do not know this though.  Whether you attend or not, a card is the best gift. 

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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