May I Host a Housewarming Party Without Alcohol?

Hi Polite One,

We just bought our first home, so I am hosting a housewarming party next month. Because I love being a good hostess, I will supply a good spread of BBQ, snacks and tidbits.

The issue is alcohol though. Due to a health matter, neither my husband nor I drink. So, I plan to provide slushy margaritas and beer for light drinking, but I don't feel obligated to provide enough for...well, serious drinking. There will be plenty of nonalcoholic beverages.

Is this proper? Or should I be aiming to provide a good selection and quantity so guests can drink however much they want? We're fairly young, so it is a matter of cost too - and I know some of our friends can be pretty heavy drinkers. Is that their problem or ours?

Winnipeg, MB Canada

Hello Winnipeg, MB Canada,

Your plans are fine, so don't worry about supplying a surplus of alcohol. Typically, a housewarming is more about dropping in to see the home and receiving loads of hugs.

You are providing more alcohol than you need to, so I think you are fine. Plus, with all the wonderful non-alcohol drinks today, your guests shouldn't feel deprived.

Thank you for the excellent question.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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