Dear Polite One,
What
is California cocktail attire?
Thank
you,
Confused
Dear
Confused,
There
is no such thing. At times, it feels as
if hosts just like to make these things up to confuse their guests. I’m sure that’s not the case. Still...
Many
hosts try to create a “feeling,” or more appropriately, “set the stage” for an
event. So, they will incorporate a
well-known attire category with a word that describes that elusive stage. This leads to the confusion we both feel
since neither of us can actually see inside their minds.
So,
I suggest going with slightly laid-back cocktail attire, which typically is the
suit for men and the little black dress or its equivalent for women. Perhaps skip the tie and accessories that
appear expensive.
Additionally,
it is appropriate to call the host and ask for clarification.
Sincerely,
The
Polite One
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