Who is responsible for entertaining visitors of my new baby?

Typically, family and friends realize a new mother needs her rest. Additionally, the baby may need a germ and virus-free environment. That is the least the pandemic has taught us. So, it would figure most would know this simple truth. Well, sometimes not. What follows is a perfect example.

New Mom Wants to Sleep

Dear Polite One,

I'm a mother of a newborn. So, as you would imagine, I'm tired after being up all night with a fussy baby. My husband, who is normally supportive, thinks that I should meet with visitors who arrive baring meals, even if I'm resting. I, on the other hand, feel that they would understand that I've had little sleep and wouldn't want to disturb me. After all, that's why they've brought ready-made meals.

Who is right here?

Sleepy Mom

Dear Sleepy Mom,

This is an easy one. If you are resting, continue resting. You are correct that your friends and family should realize that you just gave birth and need to rest, or they wouldn't be bringing meals. The new father should entertain guests while mom gets the deserved rest she needs.

Congratulations on the new little one in your life.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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