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Graduation Party Etiquette 101

 Graduation party etiquette

Graduation is a rite of passage.  Whether it be graduation from high school or college, this is an exciting event in a person's life.  But it isn't necessarily a gift-giving event. Only those close to the graduate usually give.  So, please do not request gifts.   

Just the Facts

  • Use the party as a teaching tool to prepare your child for his future.
  • Involve him/her in the planning/inviting with an eye on the budget.
  • This shouldn't be just another teen bash.
  • Keep the focus on gratitude for those who have been there for your child. 
  • If serving adults alcoholic beverages, nix children’s access and discuss legality and liability. 
  • Hosts should visit with each guest.
  • Roleplay how to meet and greet guests.
  • Practice proper introductions and handshakes with good eye contact.
  • Gifts are optional and not a focus.
  • No registering.
  • If gifts are received, each should be placed out of sight of other guests.
  • He/she must handwrite thank you notes immediately.  

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