Must I take a bottle of wine to a neighbor's home?

Dear Polite One,

I'm attending a brief hour at a neighbor's house to discuss "town" issues and meet for the first time. The neighbors are inviting a few couples and have offered cocktails. Is it appropriate for us to bring a bottle of wine since it will be the first time to our neighbor's home? My husband thinks it is overkill given that we're only going over for an hour and probably one drink.

Please advise.

Thanks,

Gail

Dear Gail,

This is optional. But it is a very nice gesture and something I would do. This neighbor has offered his home and refreshments. So, it is polite to offer something.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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