How to tip for cleaning service?

Dear Polite One,

A cleaning service cleans my home once a month. Since I assume gifts, or at least a tip, are expected by house cleaners for the holidays, what should I give? I'm having difficulty figuring this out since there is always a team of people who are not necessarily the same each time.

Holiday stressed

Dear Holiday Stressed,

Tipping is discretionary and may depend on the region. However, the going gratuity rate is $25-$100 during the holidays depending on the level of service you receive.

Since they only clean once a month, I suggest $25-$50 per person. The tip could be shared between those who clean your home. On the other hand, a nice box of candy with a note would be fine also. That could also be shared.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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