Is a going away party for the military a gift-giving situation?

Dear Polite One,

Is a military going away party a gift-giving occasion?

Pondering

Dear Pondering,

No, it is not a gift-giving situation. This isn't to say that you couldn't give something useful. But you'd have to ask what he/she is allowed to take.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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