How can I give a gift when I have no money?

Dear Polite One,

My best friend invited me to her Sweet 16 breakfast and asked me what I was going to get her for her birthday. I am 16 and have no job, so how can I give her a gift that she will like without coming empty-handed.

Thanks,

Jobless Teen

Dear Jobless in Teen,

Jeez, that wasn't very nice, invite someone to your party and then ask, "What are you getting me?" I'm not sure what you could give her that she won't look down upon. Some people just expect a lot. But candy is usually a good choice. I can usually make my little girl (40 years old) happy with a $10 box of truffles.

Perhaps your parents or guardians could help you with the costs in exchange for some of your hard labor. There are a few things we all dislike doing like, cleaning the refrigerator, washing, and waxing the car, and cleaning out the garage. Hopefully, you can work a deal.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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