In the scope of human
experiences, death, and grief is the most painful and confusing. The
finality of it and for those left behind, it can be
overwhelming. What to do? What is the most proper and
kind behavior when visiting the dying and their families? What
follows is just one of those dilemmas.
Dear Polite One,
I've just looked up an
old friend and found he is dying! I'm at a loss at what I should do.
Hospice is with him daily now. What should I do when I visit my dying
friend?
Thank you so much.
Wishes to do the right
thing
Dear Wishing to do the right thing,
My
condolences. It must be very difficult to reunite with your
friend at such a painful time. I don't know, and perhaps you don't either, what
his family situation is. I'm not sure about how much hospice is doing
either. But typically, visitors bring ready-cooked meals to the family.
We're not sure if there is family living with your friend. So, that
might not be an option.
Sometimes, visitors will
offer to stay with the dying person so the family can rest. Again, this
might not be an issue here, especially with hospice in place.
So, perhaps in this
case, it is best to just take your love and caring for your friend. This
may be what is needed most. He/she may just want to see your happy
smile.
Sincerely,
The Polite One
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