What to bring to
dinner?
Dear
Polite One,
When
invited to a dinner, family or not, should I bring a hostess gift, dessert, or
wine?
Thanks
Empty-Handed
It's
best to ask if the host would like for you to bring something, like dessert.
A good host will decline. But you should always take some sort of
hostess gift, such as a bottle of wine, flowers, or candy.
The
Polite One
How much to Pile on a
Cocktail Party Plate?
Dear
Polite One
When
attending a Cocktail Party or Happy Hour and the host is having hors d’oeuvre to be eaten on a small saucer plate, how many of each item should you get or
place on your plate?
Thank
you,
James
Dear
James,
There
is no absolute here because items may be large or small and how can we assign a
number to this. So, we should use discretion as not to appear ravenous or
greedy. Just place a few, perhaps three items on your plate at a
time. We wouldn’t want our plate to appear heaping full.
If
this is a mixer where the object of the event is to mingle, eat a few items
first, and then put the plate down. Mingling is the focus.
Sincerely,
The
Polite One
Inform Host of Dietary Issue?
Dear
Polite One,
What
is the proper etiquette for letting a dinner party host know that you do not
eat beef? Should they be made aware of that fact before the menu has been
decided, or just decline to have any if that is what is served?
Thanks!
No
Red Meat
Dear
No Red Meat,
It’s
best to contact the host directly after receiving the invitation. The host will be creating the menu and will
need to know of dislikes and allergies.
These days, many are on special diets and have aversions to certain
types of food. So, it’s fair and polite
to be open about it.
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