What is a good thank-you gift for my city bus driver?

Dear Polite One,

My city bus driver is very nice and always waits for me at the bus stop before she leaves. She always goes above the expected.

What kind of gift is appropriate to give her as thanks?

Thanks,

Tracie

Dear Tracie,

Great question! We should acknowledge those with whom we have a relationship or who have assisted us. The holidays are a perfect time to do this, but we can give our thanks any time.

Since the bus driver isn't a close friend, it is best to give her something generic, but thoughtful and not too expensive. Use what you know about her. Does she always wear cute little pins on her uniform? Does she always have a Starbucks coffee on her dash? Those are clues to thoughtful gifts you could give.

Perhaps she loves to read. Try to find out as much as possible in a few days to make a good choice. A gift card of $20-$25 is a good amount to a coffee shop or bookstore is appropriate. An online gift code is good too. A little pin if she wears them. A coffee mug filled with chocolates, or a box of chocolate is a great gift.

She might even appreciate a beautiful thoughtful card.

Bottom line, try to gift that reflects your thanks and, also, what you know about her.

Most sincerely,

The Polite One

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